Think about something that drives you crazy. Now, think about something that makes you happy. Does it change your perspective on the former?
Albert Einstein said, “You cannot solve a problem with the same mind that created it.”
I know Albert Einstein wanted us to change how we felt when we had the problem.My question is what if the problem still exists and I’m the only one who is prepared to change, What then, how can it be solved?
To understand ourselves, others, the world around me, I can change, what about the others if they are stubborn and hold on to the grudge, how is my change going to help the situation?
There are things that make me happy e.g, kind friends who are ever ready to help in any circumstance.
It is completely different from the former, in the former I have someone who is always ready to stab me in the back regardless of how much energy I expend to smooth out things. It is clearly a very different scenario, it does not give me any hope that changing my perspective will make me happy!