Describe the last time you were surprised by the intensity of a feeling you had about something or were surprised at how strongly you reacted to something you thought wouldn’t be such a big deal.
My feelings normally are not that intense I think, when I sense someone deliberately trying to bother me,it makes me very angry. In my life I’ve met people who were jealous of me they made it a point to do something to annoy me.
I had one classmate who always wanted to do better than me in school, when she was unsuccessful she’d make it a point to criticize the people I praised, unlucky for me I spent four years of my life dealing with her. The question may arise how did I deal with her. Do not be surprised if I tell you I did nothing.
There are people who intentionally irritate me I’ve made a point to ignore them, to me it’s the only way I can avoid reacting strongly to these people who have nothing better to do.
Do you hold grudges or do you believe in forgive and forget?
Unfortunately I have trouble saying,” I can’t stay mad at you, let’s forgive and forget.” There are many incidences in my life where the people who hurt me, deliberately did it because they were jealous of me . I don’t know why they have that feeling, I certainly did not deserve it.
Some of my family members enjoy hurting me, they do not hesitate to tell lies if it suits their purpose. I have tried many times to forgive and forget but they cannot stop talking against me. I am simply tired of this ‘Forgive and forget’, thing.
I have stopped having anything to do with them. I follow the saying( na rahe bans toh na baje bansari) it means without a flute you cannot play a tune. I am not sure if it will make sense to my readers or why hold on to something that cannot be fixed.