DP Daily Prompt: I Can’t Stay Mad At You
Do you hold grudges or do you believe in forgive and forget?
Unfortunately I have trouble saying,” I can’t stay mad at you, let’s forgive and forget.” There are many incidences in my life where the people who hurt me, deliberately did it because they were jealous of me . I don’t know why they have that feeling, I certainly did not deserve it.
Some of my family members enjoy hurting me, they do not hesitate to tell lies if it suits their purpose. I have tried many times to forgive and forget but they cannot stop talking against me. I am simply tired of this ‘Forgive and forget’, thing.
I have stopped having anything to do with them. I follow the saying( na rahe bans toh na baje bansari) it means without a flute you cannot play a tune. I am not sure if it will make sense to my readers or why hold on to something that cannot be fixed.
: https://sabethville.wordpress.com/2014/04/28/dp-daily-promp…tay-mad-at-you
Sabethville 
Dear Ranu,
Thank you for this post. I have come to realize that holding onto grudges only causes one person to suffer more…me.
All good wishes,
robert
Sometimes if you forgive and forget the ones who are evil
will keep coming back,so I ignore them.
It makes perfect sense to me, Ranu, and is a wonderful expression. I am so sorry to hear of the hurt you have been through from family members and others. I think you are right: there is no point in holding on to something which cannot be fixed. xxx
Thank you Ali.
Ranu,I think you are right here,because it is better to ignore people if they keep hurting you as after a point it does become difficult to forgive and forget.
Exactly my point and if they are siblings they can make your life a living hell.
Yeah that is there,you really can’t get rid of them.
Thanks Jessann.
🙂
Thanks Jess-ann-94
Very honest post Ranu.
Thank you Indira, I am tired of trying so I’ve given up.
Theek bolechho’ na rahega baans……..’
Bhablam ei bhashata likhi aar toh kichhu monay aashchhiloana.
Ki bolo Indira?
Jeta jomejaye shetai likha bhalo dear.
Ami o tai boli.
Yes, it’s an honest post and I also agree.
Thank you dear friend.